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The Reality Blog Award

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reality-blog-award1-e1357511854615I was floored when one of the bloggers I thoroughly enjoy, hillbillyzen, nominated me for The Reality Blog Award.  I’m relatively new to this whole blogging thing, so I didn’t quite understand at first.  But, according to hillbillyzen, it’s an award that authors can bestow upon the blogs they follow and admire.  I’m very honored that hillbillyzen found my writing to be award-worthy, and would encourage many others to check out her thoughtful posts!

So here are the logistics of this award thing.  When you’re nominated, you:

1.) Visit the blog of the person who nominated you, thank them, and acknowledge them on *your* blog.

2.) Answer the five questions listed below and nominate up to 20 bloggers whom you feel deserve recognition.  Visit their blog to let them know.

3.) Cut and paste the award to your wall.  Easy peasy.

And so, here are the questions and my responses:

If you could change one thing, what would you change?

As Steve Martin says in his 5 Christmas Wishes, “First it would be the crap about the kids…”  No, seriously, I’d want folks to be able to see past themselves a bit more and realize the repercussions of the actions they take in the world. 

If you could repeat an age, what would it be?

Oh Shit.  I’m pretty pleased to be done with many of the developmental milestones I’ve suffered through over the past (nearly four) decades, but if I had to pick an age, I would choose 31.  It was a year in which I could have done a whole lot better.  It was the year my son was born, and if I could experience that joy again with the knowledge I have now, I’d be a better person and a better husband. 

What one thing really scares you?

The thought of losing my wife or son.  Simply terrifies me. 

What is one dream that you have not completed, and do you think you’ll be able to complete it?

To see one of my books in print.  I think I’ll see that happen, even if by “print” I mean churning out of the printer in my basement. 

If you could be someone else for one day, who would it be?

I would like to be my wife.  I’d like to see the world through her eyes and feel what she feels. 

And now, I get to nominate other bloggers whom I find worthy of an award.  I have agonized over this for days, as I can only pick a few.  Although the blogs I follow vary in theme, I have chosen to honor blogs about fatherhood.  My blog is about the struggles of fatherhood, and I find that I’ve gained the most personally by reading about other fathers’ experiences.  There are very few men speaking up about parenting, and so I think these blogs deserve some accolades.  These writers can be thoughtful, heart-felt, humorous, and irreverent.  They are:

dorkdaddy

The Evolving Dad

Thought Pop

FosterDad101

Ay yo, Be a Father

Adventures of a Father in Training

Daddy @ Through the Grapevine

Many thanks to all these authors for sharing their wit and wisdom.  I hope that many others will check them out.

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Author: CJ Nigh

I am an East Coast writer with a Midwestern soul. Undead Dad is a blog about mindful fatherhood in the deadening age of hyper-technology and over-work. I also write science fiction for young adults.

7 thoughts on “The Reality Blog Award

  1. Thanks CJ for the nomination – very much appreciated and very humbling. Quite fitting really, given that the nominations for the Academy Awards is also out today – one down, one to go. In all seriousness though, the greatest award to me is the validation and recognition from readers of my blog who can identify, appreciate and laugh at some of the challenges that parenthood sometimes presents – a smile a day is all it takes. Parenthood is a joyful gift and if we all shared our funny stories and collaborated on a book together, there will be more babies in this world.

  2. CJ, there’s no doubt in my mind that you’ll be published, and in a more auspicious manner than a basement printer. Thanks for the kind words and the shout out, but what made my day was your list of nominees. My father was a single parent for many years, so when you took the opportunity to highlight fatherhood it was like a kiss from Karma. Thank you.

  3. CJ, a sincere thanks for the nomination. Keep doing what your doing here. I echo hillbillyzen13, your name will be in print. I’m glad to see other men stepping up and doing father thing. Let alone writing about it.

    -Vince

  4. Thanks a ton, CJ! Very much appreaciated 🙂

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